too much, not enough.

"I don’t want to be a feminist anymore. Like a five-year-old, I want to close my eyes, stick my..."

Thu, 23 May 2013 00:52:52 -0400

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I don’t want to be a feminist anymore. Like a five-year-old, I want to close my eyes, stick my fingers in my ears, stomp my feet on the floor and scream “No! No, you cannot make me, I won’t, leave me alone!” I am, simply put, too tired. So very, very tired.

I am tired of fighting with my friends. I am tired of arguing that someone groping and slapping my butt isn’t “what I have to expect”, just because I’m at a bar, and the one attacking my butt has a drink in the other hand. I am tired of hearing “boys will be boys” and “when you’re dressed like that …” and “that’s just what guys do”. I am tired of trying to drown those sentiments in loud, repetitive no’s, screamed over and over again, till my throat is sore and my voice weak – just to hear them repeated, as soon as exhaustion threatens to silence me.

I am tired of being afraid. I am tired of seeing someone writing something offensive, sexist, racist, ageist, ableist, somewhere online. I am tired of seeing those writings getting likes and lol’s, and SO TRUE’s. I am tired of being consumed by confusion and anger, typing, typing, typing and typing a seemingly endless response, including research, links and statistics, and then hesitate clicking “submit”. I am tired of knowing that I hesitate because I am afraid of the flood of responses that will come. I am tired of knowing that I will be bombarded with lighten up’s, stop whining’s and get a sense of humor’s for so long, that I will start to wonder if I am indeed wound up too tight, a nagger and humorless. I am tired of the fact that I’m afraid of being called a cunt, even though I don’t find genitalia insulting or demeaning.

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- I don’t want to be a feminist anymore. (via gingerrqueer)

tardisheart: DO YOU EVER WANNA TALK ABOUT A THING SO MUCH YOU’RE GONNA EXPLODE BUT NO ONE WANTS TO...

Thu, 23 May 2013 00:47:43 -0400

tardisheart:

DO YOU EVER WANNA TALK ABOUT A THING SO MUCH YOU’RE GONNA EXPLODE BUT NO ONE WANTS TO HEAR ABOUT THE THING SO YOU CAN’T AND JUST WOW! LET! ME! TALK! ABOUT! THE! THING!

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Wed, 22 May 2013 23:35:38 -0400

skinnygalore: spookymormon: please stop asking me about my future ill cry literally.

Wed, 22 May 2013 14:48:26 -0400

skinnygalore:

spookymormon:

please stop asking me about my future ill cry

literally.

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Wed, 22 May 2013 14:47:40 -0400

kitschkiller: this is still one of my favorite photos of all...

Wed, 22 May 2013 13:30:15 -0400

kitschkiller:

this is still one of my favorite photos of all time

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Wed, 22 May 2013 10:27:19 -0400

highmiranda: why is slut even an insult i mean i’m getting laid and you’re not so

Wed, 22 May 2013 10:25:39 -0400

highmiranda:

why is slut even an insult i mean i’m getting laid and you’re not so

in-my-mouth: Waffle Ice Cream Sandwiches

Wed, 22 May 2013 10:20:10 -0400

in-my-mouth:

Waffle Ice Cream Sandwiches

homurahomo: cronistic-tribute: homurahomo: sometimes i forget nipples exist…. think about it…...

Wed, 22 May 2013 09:47:21 -0400

homurahomo:

cronistic-tribute:

homurahomo:

sometimes i forget nipples exist…. think about it… even obama has nipples…. even dogs have nipples…. maybe even jesus had nipples…

jesus had fucking nipples, dude

whoa now…. dont force ur beliefs onto me

Wow wow wow wow ugh

Wed, 22 May 2013 09:43:02 -0400

Wow wow wow wow ugh

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Wed, 22 May 2013 00:38:06 -0400

what she says: im fine. its nothing

Tue, 21 May 2013 14:19:45 -0400

what she says: im fine. its nothing
what she means: i wish you were zayn malik

We keep moving forward, opening new doors, and doing new...

Tue, 21 May 2013 14:19:36 -0400

We keep moving forward, opening new doors, and doing new things, because we’re curious and curiosity keeps leading us down new paths

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Tue, 21 May 2013 10:35:16 -0400

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Tue, 21 May 2013 00:49:36 -0400

Your very Personal and Intense Disney Ask:

Tue, 21 May 2013 00:34:29 -0400

Aurora: Story of your first kiss
Rapunzel: 5 things from your bucket list
Dory: Something someone has told you that you can't forget (two good things and one bad)
Pocahontas: Something new you taught someone.
Mulan: Do you trust your gut feeling? What happened.
Jasmine: The story of when you had to really trust someone. Was it easy?
Belle: Is there someone you are close to who no one else likes? What's the story?
Ariel: Where do you think you belong, and why?
Flounder: Something that surprised you and frightened you.
Eric: Have you ever helped a stranger? What happened.
Aladdin: A sacrifice you made for someone.
Tiana: A time you tried the hardest for something.
Boo: A childhood hero.
Cruella: Something you really want but you aren't allowed to have.
Seven Dwarfs: 7 things you like in the people around you.
Kronk: What you are best at in the kitchen?
Simba: Something a parent has taught you.
Cinderella: "A dream is a wish your heart makes" What's that for you?
Nemo: Your bravest moment.
Terk: Are you a big brother/sister figure to anyone?
Buzz: Your favourite fantasy world (aka Harry Potter, Star Wars), if any.
Alice: Done drugs?
Peter Pan: Something from your childhood that you still love.
Merida: What are you most passionate about?

r-amsassy: darkchocolatetruffles: hyperscraps: angelofthehomos...

Tue, 21 May 2013 00:32:21 -0400

r-amsassy:

darkchocolatetruffles:

hyperscraps:

angelofthehomosexuals:

ard3nt:

this is how I learned to stop doing it, people should reblog this.

this is actually important

Hey look self harm advice that acknowledges that there’s more than two reasons that people do it

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Seems good for many types of self harm, not just cutting. I wonder if any of this stuff would work with trichotillomania.

for all my followers

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